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儿大不由爷

ér dà bù yóu yé

🎨 中性词 👁 6244 次浏览

📌 中文释义

由：听从，顺从。儿女长大成人，由不得父母做主

🌏 English Definition

Children grow independent of their grandparents

📜 出处典故

清·李绿园《歧路灯》第32回：“如今就是你把你大爷叫起来，儿大不由爷，他也管我不住。”

💬 中英例句

儿大不由爷，让他自己决定吧！

🧩 用法

中文

作宾语、定语、分句；指孩子大了

🔗 近义词

儿大不由爷

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