礼仪：礼节和仪式；邦：国家。指讲究礼节和仪式的国家。

state of ceremonies

相互来往。多指亲朋好友之间交往频繁

You come, I go

鸾：传说中凤凰一类的鸟。比喻夫妻离散。

Phoenixes part ways

汉武：汉武帝；孤：遗孤。汉武帝把8岁的儿子托霍光辅佐

Emperor Wu of Han entrusted his son before death

飘、泊：随流飘荡。原形容书法笔势潇洒飘逸，后比喻夫妻离散或文人失意。

separation of husband and wife free and powerful calligraphic style/husband and wife separated

合璧：圆形有孔的玉叫璧，半圆形的叫半璧，两个半璧合成一个圆叫“合璧”。比喻中国和外国的好东西合到一块。

blending the east and the west

指买卖双方之间的关系。比喻人与人之间以利害关系为转移的交情。

Business dealings

形容很短的时间。同“一朝一夕”。

From one morning to one night

告老：因年老而告退；还：回，返；家：故乡、故里。因年老而辞职回归故乡安度晚年。

Retire and Return Home

指使国家富足，民力强盛。

make ones country rich and powerful so that its people can enjoy a prosperous life

治：治理；安：安定。治理国家，安定人民。

rule the country and bring the people stability

知道了受人家的恩惠就报答人家的恩惠。

Know kindness and repay kindness

平头：古人不做官的人。指普通百姓

common people

两方面都愿意。多指婚姻或交易。

mutual consent

猜：猜疑。指男女幼小时一起玩耍，天真无邪，不避嫌疑。

Innocent in youth

狼藉：象狼窝里的草那样散乱。杯子盘子乱七八糟地放着。形容吃喝以后桌面杂乱的样子。

(after a feast) cups and dishes strewn everywhere

比喻十分陌生

Eyes pitch black

闻：听。凄惨得叫人不忍心听。

too sad and shocking to the ear too horrible to hear of be too horrible to learn be horrified to learn

指经过正式手续的婚姻，现指符合婚姻法规定的合法婚姻。

Formal and proper marriage

伉俪：夫妻，配偶。夫妻之间的感情深厚。

a married couple very much in love