比喻诚心待人，同甘共苦。

Crying in the wild and eating apples

设身处地地为别人着想。

feel for others put oneself in somebodys shoes think of others be empathic

以良好的德行使百姓归顺、服从统治者。

win people by virtue overcome people with virtue

赏罚不清楚不明白。该奖赏的不奖赏，该惩罚的不惩罚。

be neither rewarded nor penalized do doing a good or a bad job Good work is not duly awarded nor bad work punished

一世：一代；龙门：后汉时李膺有重名，后起的文人有登门拜访的，称之登龙门。称文人所崇仰的人物。

A lifetime at the Dragon Gate

相信他是真的。指把假的当作真的。

sumption

无须攻击，自己就会破灭。形容论点站不住脚，经不起反驳或攻击。

(of rumours, gossip etc.) collapse by itself

和、同：混合。和光：混合各种光彩；同尘：与尘俗相同。指不露锋芒，与世无争的消极处世态度。也比喻同流合污。

soften ones glare and move along old ruts swim with the tide

原意为温和、善良、恭敬、节俭、忍让这五种美德。这原是儒家提倡待人接物的准则。现也形容态度温和而缺乏斗争性。

temperate, kind, courteous, restrained and magnanimous

挨：遭受。受人打骂与虐待

bullied and beaten

不肖：不象，不贤。指品德差，没出息，不能继承先辈事业的子孙或晚辈。

unworthy descendants

形容态度十分恭敬。

be extremely deferential

形容轻佻嘻笑不知羞耻的样子。

Smiling impudently

象风在耳边吹过一样。比喻漠不关心，不相关涉。

turn a deaf ear to in one ear and out the other regard sb.s words with indifference take sb.s words like wind passing the ear

皂：黑色。不分黑白，不分是非。

indiscriminate

摸着胸口，自己问自己怎么样。指自己反省。

examine ones conscience

善：善于；解：理解。善于理解别人的意图

understanding

成色好的赤金，无瑕的美玉。比喻文章十分完美。也比喻人道德品质极好。

good quality gold and precious stones good gold and a beautiful gemones high integrity or profound learning

避世：隐居不出仕；绝俗：与世间隔绝。脱离现实生活，不和人们往来。形容隐居山林，不与世人交往。一般指消极处世的态度。

withdraw from society and live in solitude seclude oneself from the world to avoid spot

常规：沿袭下来的规矩。打破了一般的规矩或一向实行的规章制度

break free from convention