指婚姻是由月下老人暗中用一红线牵连而成。

people a thousand li apart may be linked by marriage

局外：原指棋局之外，引申为事外。指与某件事情没有关系的人。

An outsider

指所有家当什物。

One family, one fire

指男女相爱的感情丰富

Loving attachments of children

权势压倒朝廷内外。形容权势极大。

Power dominating both domestic and foreign

侪：等辈，同类的人。作诗饮酒的朋友。同“诗朋酒友”。

Poetry, wine, and friends

形容关系不和谐或心情不舒畅。

Seven arches and eight wings

朋友结为异姓兄弟

sworn brothers

晓：使人知道。把事情的利害关系给人讲清楚。

warn

指去私为公。

Abandon private interest to establish public good

驶：驾驭。形容善于见风使舵，各方面都兜得转，吃得开

Sail smoothly in all directions

比喻平起平坐，彼此对等的关系。同“分庭抗礼”。

meet as equals

指二光相互映照而愈明。比喻杰出人物得贤者揄扬而声名更显。

Mutually illuminate each other's clarity

指多方劝谏。公，公开；密，私下。

Public regulations and secret remonstrations

轻视贤良，依附权势。

Select Worthy Ones to Associate with Power

市井：古时称做买卖的地方。旧指城市里的老百姓。

Commoners in the marketplace

指从意识深处默默领会和揣摩事物所蕴含的精神气韵。

Tacit understanding and spiritual connection

比喻夫妇情深和美。亦作“琴瑟静好”、“琴瑟之好”、“琴瑟之欢”、“琴瑟之乐”、“琴瑟和同”、“琴瑟和调”。

Harmony between zither and lute

善于与别人交朋友。

Good at interacting with people

指一夫一妻的家庭。

A family's plan